ALLOWANCE
How much distraction do you allow in your life; how much pain? By setting healthy and strong boundaries, you may reduce friction. By setting Allowances that filter for the optimum quantity and quality of distraction, you may grow from opportunities rather than feel overwhelmed by too large amounts of disruptive factors.
When you draw a don’t-cross line, you state to your self and to others what may occur in your presence. This is not to say that the lines you draw will never be crossed, but removing the most destructive and least helpful filtrates helps to keep you on task and focused.
There is no apology needed for this. You are setting boundaries for your self. While these boundaries may affect the inappropriate infringement by others, you are entitled to make and abide by these settings.
We realize that many experiences are not optimal in life. We realize that others make inappropriate advances and take advantage of what they consider weakness and indecision. We are suggesting that to some degree, you may control these effects on your field and person.
And this must be done in understandable ways, by making verbal statements and showing by example what you will and will not accept. Do not leave to vagaries what should be made clear—and it should be made clear in a language that the other persons may understand.
What boundary needs establishing or strengthening in your life? Which Allowances have you failed to set or failed to strengthen? Set Allowances that filter for your optimum influence and see how your clarity and sense of peace grow.
Blessed Be This Day
This is a Direct Voice Communication from my Tribe, Spirit Elders who share their wisdoms with me from the other side of the veil.
Archives: September 18, 2017
For Discussion: What boundary in your life is currently being crossed to the most detrimental effect? Why do you allow this?
Why is your current boundary for this intrusion too weak? Are the circumstances involved causing you to make justifications--such as for a close family member or a superior at work? What is the worst that could happen if you strengthened this boundary and gave firm verbal direction for protecting your space?
Imagine your boundary intact and strong, working at its most efficient level. How do you feel? How does your life improve?
visual by Walks With Fire
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