PARAMOUR
Who, or what, is your illicit lover? What fanciful entity commands your attention and energy? What do you give to the relationship, and what do you receive?
A Paramour hypnotizes; makes you feel needed; makes you feel desired. A Paramour can give you false self-esteem, or, related to in positive ways, can actually build self-esteem.
First, determine what it is that you love: not a person, but a concept, a place, a system, or an object set. How important is this in your life? Maybe it’s a job, a house, a hobby, or an ideal. Look at it. Determine how much energy you give to it, and the return on that energy.
A helpful Paramour will play to your strengths, and also call out to your weaknesses. A helpful Paramour will help you grow into a role you wish to play. An impeding Paramour will serve as the life raft in a sea of excuses: “I love it so much, it couldn’t be helped.” – “I see that I’m obsessing, but I can’t change it.” – “Yes, this Paramour (drinking problem, gambling problem, etc.), is destructive to me, but I can’t escape it.”
We have love affairs with what is dangerous, destructive, and even debilitating. Why? Is it a testing ground, or a sidebar that helps us to avoid our real work? Each Paramour has its own face, so that it up to you for determining.
This morning, audit your life books. Where goes your energy, and what does the endpoint return? Do you find destructive Paramours in your tally? If so, work to expose them. Now, work to abolish them.
When you love, love with Great All singing your praises. Love truly and for good cause. And, most importantly, love in a way that your love inspires the love of others.
Blessed Be This Day
This is a Direct Voice Communication from my Tribe, Spirit Elders who share their wisdoms with me from the other side of the veil.
August 17, 2018
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